Tomorrow I am going to my hometown to attend a wrestling tournament. It’s not that I’m extremely interested in the wrestling, but the guy who I am going to see is. He wrestled in high school, and now his son wrestles and he coaches. He and I went to high school together. We weren’t in the same class, he’s a year older than me, but we were in band together, and we went to a fairly small high school. I suppose you could say we were friends in high school. Friends with chemistry, maybe. Definitely not “friends with benefits”, and we never dated. I didn’t really date in high school, but that’s a whole different blog post!
Anyway, we have been FB friends for awhile, but started communicating again about 6 months ago, mainly IMing and texting. We haven’t even talked on the phone. We’re both pretty busy–me with my 12 hours away from home per day and my son, and him with non-traditional work hours and being a very dedicated father of 3. But, we have found a little time to flirt by text. We have discussed getting together numerous times over the months, but it has never happened. Now, he will only be an hour away, as opposed to 3, so I am going to go see him.
This will be the first time in about 20 years we’ve seen each other in person. I had a huge crush on him in high school–which my big mouth told him about recently! He said he never knew. I did come right out and ask him if he thought we had chemistry in high school and he agreed that we did. I asked him if he thinks we’ll still have chemistry. He thinks we will.
I don’t come across many guys I have chemistry with. It will be interesting to see if after 20 some years if he still trips my trigger. Things are a lot different now, considering one of the main reasons I think he’s pretty hot now is because he’s such a great dad, and in high school I might have thought he was hot because he had a cool car! Just kidding about the car–I have never been that shallow.
I will let you know how it goes!