So my ex-husband just proposed to his current girlfriend this weekend. I know all of this because my son tells me pretty much everything. This will be his third marriage, and we’ve only been divorced a little over 10 years. I have to admit that it bothers me a little bit. Not because he’s getting married, because that ship sailed a long time ago, but because I don’t have a significant other. I’ve had two significant relationships since my divorce–one with a married man and one with an emotional abuser. Each of those relationships lasted between 3 and 4 years, so you can’t say that I don’t have longevity. Smart-ass. I was being sarcastic there. It doesn’t matter if you have longevity with men who are either emotionally or physically unavailable or are abusive. I just want there to be someone out there for me. I think I deserve some good stuff. Regardless of who I have loved, or the choices I’ve made and what people might think of them, I am a good person. I’m a great mom–I’m fierce, I’m fun, I’m talented, and when I’m around life is never mundane. Where’s the man who will realize how great I am and can put up with me??