Ok, so I have a dilemma. Wait. How can I call it a dilemma when it isn’t even a thing yet? I only started talking to him a couple of days ago, and things seem really awesome, but I haven’t even met him in person at this point, so why am I worried about it? Well, I’m worried about it because I already like him and he seems to be interested in me too. We seem to click. We seem to have similar interests. We seem to get each other’s jokes.
What could the dilemma be? Well, he’s still married. Not as in married, still living with his wife married, but married, as in we’ve been separated for an extended period of time and haven’t gotten divorced yet married. So I ask if there’s going to be a divorce at some point, and he says there is, but they haven’t discussed specifics. There will be no reconciling, and they have been separated for almost two years. There are children involved, which makes things more difficult. He stated right in his profile that he was separated, so he isn’t trying to conceal anything. He said he didn’t want to mislead anyone by stating anything else. He says he did notice that my profile says not to contact me if you’re married. Separated is still technically married, but not necessarily emotionally married.
He says he understands if I don’t want to continue speaking to him. I tell him I do want to continue speaking to him, and he says okay, I will call you when I get to my destination.
Is it really a dilemma? Or is it just a technicality? I think it’s just a technicality.